It might be stressing to take the first step. Asking a man out for a one night hookup can be terrifying, because you are putting yourself into a place where you can be rejected and humiliated. My first advice is: If you want to hookup with man, that is your rights and care no one.
Luckily, as the dating and tinder hookup godmother, here are some advice for girls who want to hookup with guys.
Know the rules. Before you text him, you need to know that hooking up is a mutual activity. It needs to be agreed by both parties, which means, you are opening your door for him and he takes the upper side to decide whether to hookup with you. If you know how the rule works, let’s start.
Take baby steps. If you are new in this area, I suggest you to take baby steps unless you have the gut to say to him “hey, come one and male love with me.” I believe most girls do not have such courage. Therefore, there is no need to rush. Take it slow. Test the water before diving in. Start with a conversation. “How’s you day?” Or you can tell him your day. If you have been texting him recently, you can continue your routine. It is no big deal if you want to hookup on dating apps. You are a human-being with sexual desire.
At the same time, observe his reply. Usually, most men couldn’t resist from the temptation of a girl, unless he has a new target recently or he is already in a relationship. Therefore, that is what you need to find out. Make sure he is single and he is into you. How? What is his reaction to you? Is he passionate or not? You can definitely feel that. If he is very enthusiastic about the conversation, you can move forward or maybe bring up the proposal. If he is not, he is either not interested or he has something occupied. You need to be ready to be rejected.
You can also take the most direct way and ask him if he want to hookup with you, provided that you have known each other before, or he would have doubts. Usually, men wouldn’t trust strangers, even just for a one night hookup, mostly for the following things: Is she clean? What does she look like? Does she charge? Therefore, before you bring up your suggestion, you may also need to answer these questions for him before asking.
It is much easier for girls to hookup with guys than the other way around. Just make sure this man won’t be a danger to you and off you to go.